DEAR ABBY: Do you have any information or advice on how to talk to my 12-year-old stepdaughter about sex? I have a pretty good idea about where to take the conversation. I don’t plan to make it a big deal — not so serious as to scare her, but not too lighthearted either. You never […]
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Woman in wheelchair feels no need to explain her condition
DEAR ABBY: I am a partially disabled person in my 70s. Because of arthritis in my spine and hip, I’m able to stand for only a few minutes and walk only 20 to 30 feet. When I know I am going to be someplace that requires more walking or standing, I use my wheelchair. My […]
Couple deep in tax hole need help in climbing out
DEAR ABBY: I have just learned that my sister’s husband of 35 years (I’ll call him George) hasn’t filed their personal income taxes going back a number of years. This has caused a lot of stress and anxiety for my sister, who recently underwent breast cancer treatment. Apparently, he hasn’t filed because of his inability […]
Leave account information for survivors
DEAR ABBY: My problem concerns my children and others who may have to deal with my finances or estate should I become ill or die. I constantly get requests from credit card companies and other businesses, like utilities, urging me to “go paperless.” ”Save a tree … save a forest!” While I’m sympathetic, I worry […]
Wife’s future is a difficult subject for dying husband
DEAR ABBY: My husband has stage 4 cancer and is in constant pain. A big worry for him is my being alone in life after his passing. Several months ago when the subject came up, I told him that while I’m not a prophet, I know I’ll be OK. I’m a social person. I have […]
Mom regrets she has stayed in abusive marriage too long
DEAR ABBY: How do I forgive myself for staying with my husband “for the sake of the kids” and because I was afraid of him? Our children are teenagers now and both suffer from low self-esteem and depression. We lived far away from any family while they were growing up, and I was financially dependent […]
Man objects to girlfriend’s family vacation with ex
DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend has been divorced for two years. She shares custody of her two girls, ages 5 and 6, with her ex. She wants to remain friends with him for the sake of the girls. I have supported her friendly relationship with him despite the repeated lies he tells and the deceptive stories […]
Woman who is HIV-positive is hiding her status from men
DEAR ABBY: I moved away from my hometown 18 years ago. At the time, a friend of mine had found out she was HIV-positive. Thankfully, healthwise she’s doing well. To look at her you would never know. We have reconnected, but I have recently learned that she had several relationships in the past and didn’t […]
Questioning boyfriend is not likely to change
DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, “Blake,” recently broke up with me — again. He told me in the beginning that he was bi-curious, and that he wasn’t sure he was completely heterosexual. When he broke up with me the first time, we stayed friends. Everyone seemed confused that I still wanted to hang out with him. […]
Marriage brings man close to tears
DEAR ABBY: I have been married 40 years, and it’s just the two of us. I work full time and make a good living. We have a large house in a great neighborhood. My problem is my wife. She hasn’t worked throughout almost all of our marriage and has to be the laziest person I […]