DEAR ABBY: I’m a 17-year-old girl and recently came out to my parents, who are stuck in the “it’s just a phase” mindset. I used to be able to talk with my mom about everything, but now when I talk about my sexuality, she gets quiet and dismissive. It’s frustrating. I understand I’m still young […]
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Pain during prostate biopsy is unnecessary
DEAR DR. ROACH: My friend had a biopsy on his prostate three weeks ago. During the biopsy, he was crying and in excruciating pain. They took four samples, and the doctor said: “I need a total of eight samples. Do you want me to continue?” He replied “no,” and the doctor stormed out. Is it […]
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Leo: Make your life better
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Sara Rue, 39; Ellen DeGeneres, 60; Eddie Van Halen, 63; Lucinda Williams, 65. Happy Birthday: Good fortune will be a result of hard work and a little luck. Speak up and get things done. Take control of whatever situation you face and don’t be afraid to ask questions or give […]
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Friendship marred by man's treatment of his wife
DEAR ABBY: I have a good male friend whose company I have enjoyed very much. He’s outgoing and likes many of the same activities I do. Should I ever need anything, I know he would be there for me. Unfortunately, this same person is very disrespectful to his wife. He’s severely critical of everything she […]
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Cancer: Don't abuse your health
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Alicia Keys, 37; Mia Kirshner, 43; Ana Ortiz, 47; Jenifer Lewis, 61. Happy Birthday: Be careful what you share and with whom. Personal information should be kept a secret until you have all the kinks ironed out. Your ability to put persuasive pressure on others in order to get what […]
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Celibacy puts urgency on marriage date
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 50-year-old male engaged to be married to my elementary school sweetheart, “Marie.” This will be the second marriage for both of us. We’ve been dating for six years, three of which were a long-distance relationship. During a time when her mother became ill and sadly passed, Marie told me God had […]
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Estrogen no longer recommended for brain
DEAR DR. ROACH: My 78-year-old mother has taken compounded estrogen since menopause. She swears that it has kept her from getting Alzheimer’s disease and other brain diseases. I am 54 and have been in menopause for about a year. I’ve tried hormone replacement therapy, but I’ve had weight gain and other side effects. Eventually I […]
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Gemini: Clear the air
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Mischa Barton, 32; Tatyana Ali, 39; Ed Helms, 44; Neil Diamond, 77. Happy Birthday: Helping others will in turn help you. Moving forward with other people in mind will boost your reputation and give you the power to incorporate what you would like to see transpire. Offering hope and a […]
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Guide helps parents recognize child depression
DEAR ABBY: Seeing a child you love struggle with depression is such a helpless feeling. Parents wonder how to talk to them as they withdraw from the people and activities that used to bring them joy. You just want them to feel better again. Many times, parents tell themselves it’s just a phase their child […]
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Guidelines for living with one kidney
DEAR DR. ROACH: I had a kidney removed eight months ago due to a kidney tumor, and since then have had bloodwork done numerous times. My GFR fluctuates from 38-44, and my creatinine and BUN levels are high (creatinine level is about 1.7 and BUN around 27; before surgery, my creatinine was 1.2). As of […]