DEAR DR. ROACH: My uncle, a retired surgeon, is 90 years old. I visit my uncle periodically to inquire about his health and well-being. He eats, but is a little weak. I suggested to my aunt, a retired obstetrician, to give him a nutritional supplement. I take one myself and found it to be effective […]
Advice
Decades-old loan remains unpaid even after threats
DEAR ABBY: I am an 83-year-old mother of four. I have been living with my second husband now for 21 years. Nineteen years ago, my husband loaned one of my daughters and her husband a large sum of money so they could buy a house and pay off bills and judgments. All the necessary paperwork […]
Capricorn: Don’t take offense at insensitive remark; learn from the experience
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Jenny Slate, 38; Sarah Jessica Parker, 55; Marcia Cross, 58; Elton John, 73. Happy Birthday: Sensitive issues will surface this year, leaving you no choice but to address them and carry on with your life. Change is within reach, but it will require effort on your part if you want […]
Carcinoid syndrome should be treated by a gastro specialist
DEAR DR. ROACH: Can you please give more insight into carcinoid syndrome? In particular, I’d like to know its symptoms and how it gets diagnosed and treated? What kind of a doctor would one see with that diagnosis? — S.B. ANSWER: A carcinoid tumor is a type of neuroendocrine tumor of the digestive tract or […]
Husband carried on an affair as wife cared for his mother
DEAR ABBY: My husband of 30-plus years cheated on me several years ago with one of his young private students. In our state, she would have been underage, but she was living in an adjacent state with different laws. I had just finished six months of nursing his mom to heaven. She had Alzheimer’s, and […]
Nontraditional treatment versus pain meds
DEAR DR. ROACH: At least three times a year I suffer from a pinched nerve. According to my physician, it is due to osteoarthritis and/or stress and bad posture. The pain can make me nauseated at times. On one occasion, it drove me to go to an emergency clinic. The physician prescribed gabapentin. After researching […]
Sagittarius: Avoid overindulgence to stay productive
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Peyton Manning, 44; Alyson Hannigan, 46; Jim Parsons, 47; Louie Anderson, 67. Happy Birthday: Slow down, and enjoy what life has to offer. You don’t have to be superhuman. Impulsive actions will lead to trouble. Strategize first and act later. Look inward, ask yourself hard questions and formulate what you […]
Couple’s views on one issue diverge and threaten future
DEAR ABBY: After an abusive relationship ended 14 years ago, I stayed single and raised my small son to adulthood. I dated here and there, but never found anyone I had serious feelings for who also felt the same way about me until seven months ago. My feelings for my boyfriend are strong, and it’s […]
The risks and rewards of osteoporosis treatment
DEAR DR. ROACH: I am interested in your opinion of the drug Fosamax. I am a 63-year-old female who recently had my first bone density scan. The results were severe osteopenia. On the FRAX tool, I have a 10-year probability of a major osteoporotic fracture of 10%, with a hip fracture risk at 2%. The […]
Scorpio: Make a plan and chase your dreams
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Michelle Monaghan, 44; Keri Russell, 44; Catherine Keener, 61; Chaka Khan, 67. Happy Birthday: Hash over the possibilities and how best to approach the goals you set. Make sure you understand what’s entailed and the time involved before you agree to begin something new. Realism, coupled with practicality, will be […]