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Put yourself in excluded child’s shoes

DEAR ABBY: My 11-year-old daughter recently asked to have a sleepover with some of her best friends. She’s part of a ”club” with five other girls. Four of them are her best friends, so she invited them. However, my daughter is not close with the fifth girl, ”Debbie.” They don’t hang out at school and […]

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Children’s bedtime routines cause mom to lose sleep

DEAR ABBY: After the birth of our son, ”Ricky,” my husband insisted he sleep in our bed with us. When our son was 3, I finally put my foot down because none of us were sleeping peacefully. Ricky is now 8, and my husband lies in his bed with him until he falls asleep. Our […]

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How to remove an awful boyfriend from your memory

DEAR ABBY: Years ago, I dated an awful guy. He possessed just about every negative quality you could imagine. I dated him anyway because I was immature, depressed and lonely. Since we broke up and I got my mental health back on track, my life has been wonderful. I keep moving up and forward in […]

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How to talk to a cute guy when you’re a shy woman

DEAR ABBY: I’m an educated, attractive 24-year-old woman who hasn’t dated much. I’m eager to break out of my shell and start putting myself out there, but I’m afraid my shyness may make me unapproachable. How do I strike up a pleasant conversation with a cute guy at the gym or a friendly customer at […]

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Couple fallen out of love should fall out of marriage

DEAR ABBY: Is it possible that people can just fall out of love with each other? We have been married for 21 years and have three kids who are older. Over the last five years, my wife and I have stopped communicating. We don’t do anything together and have little desire to be with each […]

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Husband’s request to dress up seems silly to informal wife

DEAR ABBY: My wife of 15 years is a beautiful lady I find more attractive every day. I compliment her often, but her self-image isn’t particularly good. She’s a top-level executive — not your typical ”girly-girl.” She has never been the sexy-dress type, in the bedroom or out in public. She doesn’t have to dress […]

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Husband’s work schedule not healthy

DEAR ABBY: I am a stay-at-home mom who doesn’t work. My husband wants me at home, and I’m OK with that, but the problem is, he is now working two jobs and I never see him. When he gets home, he’s so exhausted he can’t keep his eyes open. He sleeps only four hours a […]

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Teen’s friendship is strained after moving five miles away

DEAR ABBY: We used to live in a neighborhood where my 13-year-old daughter’s best friend, ”Mandy,” still lives. They would play together and visit often and are well-suited in maturity and personality. Since we moved, Mandy has been to our new home (five miles away) a dozen times. The last several times we have invited […]